I decided to do a video about the remaining 6 months of 2019. In my previous posts, you will see how much I emphasise on what we have achieved so far this year. You may not have had the best 6 months so far, but I strongly guarantee that if you position your mind and use the first 6 months of 2019 as preparation and apply what you learnt to step into July to December, you will see how it will work out for your good. From July to December it is the practical stages to put yourself in the receiving and expectation mode. Do not write yourself off, and remember just because it did not happen in the first six months, doesn’t mean it won’t happen towards the remaining 6 months we have to go.

In addition with the remaining months we have left until 2020, may I remind you that growth is painful. Anything you want to see takes time and must be done consistently. At times, you will wonder why your plans aren’t going the way you expected it to be. Other times the support you expected won’t necessarily come your way, but what matters is that you stay true to who you are. As you go higher in life, there will be envy and jealousy, but use the negative energy to turn it around into positivity. Don’t sit still and allow life to pass you by. I have dedicated this video to everyone who want to rise to the next level. GET READY FOR THE NEXT LEVEL NOW!

We have also got three tickets left until the From Glory to Glory book launch on Saturday 27th July, so if you would like to attend be quick to register your name here!

Don’t allow any day to pass you by, waiting for the ‘right’ opportunity. You are the right opportunity. You are the person that someone needs in their situation. You are called. You are chosen. Believe this and walk in your greatness. Be blessed by this video and share with family and friends. 2019, WE SHALL END THIS YEAR EXTREMELY WELL! See you soon!

Full video can be found here!

With warmth,

Founder of Authentic Worth
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Facebook: Authentic Worth
YouTube: Esther N J

It’s Okay Not To Be Okay

Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves each time we wake up and see a new day?

What causes us to become so discontent with what we have that causes bitterness in our hearts towards others?

How do we use what we go through to inspire and create a platform to voice out and help others in need?

What kind of solution are you going to create to help those who are about to give up?

I will keep saying this; IT IS OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY. I don’t always have it together and I don’t worry about it because the more you worry, the more it will affect your health. Please note this. It is fine to have your plans wrecked, it is okay not to have everything under your control. There are always logical reasons behind this. I remember a time my friend had an interview and was late for around 5/6 minutes. My friend did not get the job. My friend then applied for the same job but closer to home and finally received the job. My friends concern was how am I going to survive without having a job, not realising that ‘distance’ was not taken into account and this is what at times we take for granted.

We want something so badly that we rush the process and apply for anything; however we have not calculated the consequences (the length of journey) in this case to even consider if we will make it ‘on time’. Please know that when a rejection letter comes, it is not them rejecting you; it is them rejecting your ‘potential lateness’. Do not write yourself off and feel you don’t add value. Only someone who is not breathing doesn’t add value. You are alive and well reading this post so believe when I say you will be okay.

It is okay not to have everything together; Rome was not built in a day, neither can we expect our lives to be the way we want it to be in one day. It is a process that we must not forfeit and keep going until the victory is won. Some days will be harder but it will get better. You will smile again; you will laugh again; you will love again, but throughout the journey, learn something from it. Take it and use to your advantage.

You have a purpose; you are worthy and you matter. Don’t write yourself off just because someone else did. There are people who you know and don’t know that watch you whether it is through social media, videos or your website. Don’t hide yourself for fear of being judged. Let transparency speak for itself. People invest in those that are real and honest about what they go through. Don’t ‘pretend’. We have enough pretence in our generation that we NOW need truth and selflessness. Remember: it is okay not to be okay.

Love Esther.

Founder of Authentic Worth
Instagram: authenticworth
Facebook: Authentic Worth

For more inspiration you can order my books: It’s Time to Heal and Completion. More information is on the website.



Discuss, engage, connect and unwind! It is time to present to you The Big Debate 2018! The excitement for the event is so real! Where there are many events that don’t always have/take full advantage of being transparent or the time to speak about various topics, our professional and bespoke speakers from different stages will discuss some of our pressing needs that are influencing our society.

The theme is ‘B R E A K I N G B A R R I E R S’ – the tendency to compare can become a silent struggle. There is always a natural feeling to this; when someone is doing well it provokes you to do better. Your gifts make room for you so take full advantage of it. Some of us are physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and socially drained, which is causing us to compromise who we truly are – do you agree?


***Please be advised to ask questions so as to stimulate the day and make it a pleasant experience, or you can write your questions down and the ushers will hand it over to the panelists***


Do you have the knowledge to set up a business but don’t feel the financial resources are sufficient? Or do you struggle with self-worth and not realise it causes stagnation to your personal growth and perhaps those around you? What if you have been waiting patiently for ‘The One’ but no one fits the criteria. Let’s talk about it! The following topics on the day will consist of:


Courting – Am I in the right relationship?

Marriage – I am feeling discouraged in my marriage; I feel like giving up!

Friendships – I have trust issues and can’t seem to understand why!

Financial Stability – I am always broke and find it hard to save – what advice can you give me?

Career Advice – I am planning to start my own business but don’t have the financial resources. What options do I have?


YES – there will be three special raffles so ensure you reserve yours before Saturday 21st July! This will be included in the purchase of your ticket online so you will get the raffle upon arrival. If tickets run out online, please know that we accept on-the-door purchases and a raffle will be given.


Prize Give-A-Ways:
There will be an additional two prizes to be won but will be mentioned on the day!

Light refreshments, lots of banter, opportunities to network with others, and more importantly, a lovely atmosphere in God’s presence.


Please note that there is a special offer on tickets for a limited time only:


***Early Bird Tickets: £7.00 (Sunday 08th April to Thursday 31st May)***

Standard Tickets: £10.00 (Friday 1st June to Saturday 21st July)


EventBrite link to register: The Big Debate – Breaking Barriers


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