The Behaviour of Love

The behaviour of love is about adapting to the difference ways you can love someone whilst remaining true to who you are. Love is power!

Hello ladies and I do hope you are doing well? It feels like it’s been a while since writing to you, but I hope everyone is doing well? Today post is going to be about the behaviour of love; I will keep it very brief but want to address some key points. Love as we know is powerful as it heals, transforms, empowers and softly sets free the hearts of those that have been broken.

When you think about love, what comes to mind? Is it to love your family unconditionally, your partner, a best girl friend, your pet, a possession? Whatever you love has a behaviour attached to it. Now, remember that we don’t love people because of what they have or what we can gain from them but who they are as individuals. As each day goes by, we are exposed to different personalities where some can be hard to love and this could be for various reasons. Others want to be loved but fear of the past has prevented them from opening up their hearts.

No matter what season you are in, be willing to adapt to the behaviour of love. If you notice someone is being silent and not wanting to speak, give that person time and space, not allowing it to impact your behaviour or attitude towards them. Silence is very powerful, but isn’t to be used as manipulation. The love you carry within is shared outwardly and should be expressed respectfully. In order to feel good within, you have to portray love with those around you, whether they are in your network or not, because you don’t know who has the key to the next dimension of your life.

The behaviour of love will keep you humble, making you desire to serve well and expect love back in return. You are worthy of love sister! Don’t ever doubt it, but continue to remain focused, optimistic and give love time to understand you. As you take the time to understand love, love will in turn change to appreciate you. We must also learn how to thank those that have shown us love in various ways, whether in big favours or small favours.

Life changes, but the behaviour of love remains the same because John 3:16 says so. This is true love indeed!

We love and appreciate you all until the next blog post!

Women’s Worth Conference Group.

A woman worth more than what the world offers.

Guard your friend’s heart as well…

Guard your friend’s heart too

In as much as it is important to guard our hearts, there’s something so beautiful about guarding your friend’s hearts too. As we are gradually coming out of the pandemic, it may take some time to adjust with socialising with our friends and loved ones, but there is something special about having fellowship with one another. Being able to hug your friend again, talk face-to-face, and more importantly, meet like-minded people, creating new friendships and relationships too.

The importance of guarding our hearts are extremely important, and in all honestly, I for one am a strong advocate in ensuring that my heart is guarded, however, we do need to surround ourselves with the right people when building. There is a saying: “Your network is your net worth” – I want to add on this that “Guarding your heart is also guarding your friend’s heart as well.” We should not wait until something happens for us to appreciate one another. It should start now. Sometimes we won’t always be strong and this is why YOU exist to be the anchor in your friend’s heart.

Above all, live in the present moment and make the most of your life by being able to create precious memories whilst guarding your own heart as well as those around you. Love is a powerful tool that ought not to be taken for granted; use it wisely and guard it. It shouldn’t be taken lightly. To all the great women who are working hard not only for themselves and others; we truly see you and we salute you. The best is yet to come for you all.

With love,

Woman’s Worth Conference Group.

AS WE APPROACH 2021…

Woman; as you approach 2021, remember, it is okay to have a plan. BUT, don’t allow that plan to be the only focus. Learn how to open up and embrace change. If you can summarise 2020 as a whole, what would it be? As for me, I have learnt about the beauty of dealing with uncertainty, not always having a concrete strategy, and being able to adapt in my current environment. Everyone has faced 2020 from a different lens, but as you approach 2021, take heed to the valuable lessons learnt in 2020, and prepare for greatness. Seek wisdom. Gain knowledge. Expand your understanding. Think bigger. Step out of your comfort zone. Do the impossible.

Approach 2021 with a great expectation that despite the abrupt last-minute changes, you will be your sisters-keeper and will lift each woman up as you walk the journey of a new year.

Women’s Worth Conference Group would like to publicly thank every individual who takes the time to read our blog posts and gain encouragement from them. We are thankful that it inspires each reader and believing that 2021 will be the year where more written content will be made, being able to impact many more people. Have a lovely New Year ahead, and be EXPECTANT! The best is yet to come!

The beauty of authentic love

What greater love does a human being have for an entire nation? The world in itself is so big that in our limited hearts, may be impossible to love or even reach everyone. However, I know of a man who gave His own life, died a cruel death, where those who were meant to help Him, ridiculed and spat on Him. His name is Jesus Christ, and today, we celebrate Easter Sunday; the resurrection of our Lord and Saviour.

I can’t even begin to fathom how amazing and faithful God in. Even when I have my lowest and dark moments, feelings of whether I can carry on, all because I was in my own emotions; but Jesus, in His power reminded me that on this day (Sunday 12th April 2020), that every stagnant situation in my life will lift off me NOW! I am in awe and will always be thankful for what Jesus has done for me.

Coming from a long way in life, I have had many achievements as well as dark moments, but through it all, Jesus has been on my side, cheering me on, giving me creative ideas on how I can continue with the vision He gave me, granting me rest when my body gets weak. I know that nobody can love me the way Jesus can, neither will the motives of a man’s heart be more pure than Christ Himself.

I am fully rest assured that my best days are ahead of me, and nothing that was in the past will ever equate to what is coming for me. My testimony is warming up and all those that have struggled to see why they had to go through what they had to go through will see Christ in my testimony and give Him praise. For every painful situation, there is a way out.

Celebrate today the resurrection of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. He is available to everyone and will not discriminate. I am a full living witness and testimony to Jesus’ goodness! He will bless you; He wants to grant you your hearts desires and give you more. This is your opportunity to give Him what is due to His Name. Has He been good to you? I KNOW He has!

Happy Easter everyone

With love,

Esther
Founder of Authentic Worth

PREPARE FOR THE EASTER WEEKEND

This week always gets me emotional when I think about Easter. It is an opportunity to ponder, reflect and be thankful for what Jesus did for all of us on the Cross over 2,000 years ago. Despite what is happening throughout our world, let us not allow the coronavirus to take the headlines of Christ. Christ is higher and greater than corona.

I was meant to travel to Malta this weekend with one of my favourite sisters, however, due to the coronavirus, the flight has been cancelled. I was looking forward to spending Easter at Malta for a change, as my Easter celebrations have always been in London. Nonetheless, I am grateful for the opportunity to see the Easter weekend in advance. I have been humbled, and despite all that is happening, there is still an opportunity to celebrate Easter everywhere.

I want to encourage you to not be put off by what is happening in the world today. Life is tough; that I know. Nevertheless, it shouldn’t have such power that we can’t endeavour to move on with life and reflect on what Christ did for us. When I think of the Cross, I can only humble myself with my knees bowed down, lifting up my hands and saying to Jesus, “thank YOU for taking my place”. When you look at your problems, you can’t understand or fathom the beauty of Easter, but when you look up to the Cross, that is where you gain strength and the ability to carry on in life.

Let this weekend cause you to rejoice, because had it not been for the Cross, nobody would be here right now. Don’t allow your circumstances to make you bitter or cause you to give up on your loved ones. Jesus had a large heart to care for all of us, and this weekend is an opportunity to express how much we love Him back. I will be watching The Passion of the Christ this weekend with my family, as well as celebrating Easter with my church family online.

Don’t allow corona to take the headlines of Christ. Christ is greater than corona. You have to believe it!

Enjoy this weekend to the fullest; don’t allow your emotions or feelings to get in the way. Your strength is in your praise.

Happy Easter Weekend ❤